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This is what I found when I googled: “African woman breastfeeding baby”

It’s hard to believe we’re 27 months strong with breastfeeding.

Feed them babies, ya’ll! RBG for life!

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Happy National Breastfeeding Month

Okay, now when you saw these photos did you think I’ve lost what little bit of sanity I have left? Were you shocked? Did you even notice? Even care?

Well this is what I saw after I opened an e-blast from a local women’s health organization that I support. What the f*&k?! I instantly thought. Are they crazy? What’s up with this photo?

I then scrolled down and looking at their “5 Breastfeeding Tips”. Very generic tips and not one speaking to the need for increased promotion and support for women of color. So I thought again, why the need for this invidious photo.

Being the RBG I am, I thought I’d let them know how I, someone that has supported their work feel about this. Needless to say, the responses were interesting. There’s nothing like calling someone out on their racism and they give you a reason as to why they did it. Brilliant.

Here is our correspondence. Let a sister know your thoughts.

Hi Beth,

Happy National Breastfeeding Month!

I am writing because I am super excited about the recognition for NBM in your newest e-blast. Although, this is a beautiful and important message, I have to admit I was taken aback by the images chosen to promote this awareness. I do believe intentions were well meant but I want to bring something really important to your attention.

The first image, the one of a Black woman nursing a white presenting baby was an interesting use of imagery. As a strong breastfeeding supporter I understand how daunting it may seem to look for specific images of African-American women breastfeeding. There are photos available and most recently with the hard work of some committed women, there has been numerous online spaces created providing more visibility for Black breastfeeding women breastfeeding Black babies. The photo you all chose is an advertisement that many mainstream news outlets and resources use when discussing the disparities (really inequities) related to breastfeeding within the Black community. There are national campaigns being created as we speak to promote the health benefits that breastfeeding plays, particularly in regards to Black women. With African-American women experiencing more and more aggressive forms of breast cancer (which I know your organization knows much more about than me) it has been shown that breastfeeding greatly reduces the risk of getting not only these forms of cancer but also reduces other health issues like obesity and diabetes.

So what does this have to do with the photo(s)? It’s really important to understand how images or even feeling like something is relevant culturally plays a part in the behavior change and/or promotion of consumers. I think about how I would feel as a woman of color preparing myself and my family to access services through your organization in regards to starting a family opening this email and seeing these photos. The beauty and perfection in the breastfeeding dyad witnessed in those last two photos are breathtaking. The first, not so much (the woman in the first picture doesn’t even have a head/face). Racial inclusivity in so important in health promotion and is something I think your organization wants to display to their clients. Long story short, in promoting NBM it would behoove you all to include women of color breastfeeding–or not. Having that photo there just causes too much questioning.

I won’t keep you but thought that you would be receptive to this oversight. I have included some links below that may help in the future in case you all need some imagery (just please credit as most of these folks are real people and not stock photos).

Thanks!
Jeanine

Hey Jeanine,

Thank you so much for your incredibly thoughtful email. I really appreciate you taking the time to explain your concerns, and your willingness to be open with me. I agree completely that imagery choices when promoting healthy behaviors and educating about health disparities is paramount. I think that Shannon and I always do our very best to be cognizant about the ways that certain photos or word choices can impact the way that someone perceives our newsletters, as well as their willingness to come into our organization for care.

That said, I really believe that Shannon and I made a poor choice with the first photo, when I put some more thought into it. When I was reviewing the e-blast originally, I hesitated when looking at the first image, thinking that it might be read poorly by women of color (or people in general) and/or raise eyebrows. On the other hand, I thought that it could be perceived as beautiful, that there is a mother and child of different ethnicities that are experiencing breastfeeding together. But, I do know that there are different connotations to a white woman nursing a black baby, than a black woman nursing a white baby, for example. So, I certainly want to be mindful and sensitive to that. Additionally, I know that there were two pictures of white women with white babies, and then a black woman with a white baby. I understand why that looks culturally insensitive. I think the connotations would have been different if there were multi-ethnic women nursing different ethnicties of babies, or women nursing babies of matching ethnicities to theirs, etc. In any case, I know that this issue is complex, and I want us at our organization to be regularly vigilant and sensitive about that.

Again, I really appreciate your input, and I hope that you can continue to provide feedback as you see fit. Shannon and I will certainly be more careful next time about our photo choices.

I’ve CC’d Shannon here, in case she wants to chime in at all.

Thanks again,
Beth

Hi Jeanine,

First, let me thank you for speaking up and sharing your thoughts about the photos with me. I appreciate you taking the time to do so:)

Second, let me offer an explanation for choosing this specific photo. This photo was chosen not to offend, but to offer the first part of a continuous story that we plan on sharing from the inclusive perspective of diversified families and women who breast-feed.

I made a very conscious decision to use the photo of the African American woman breastfeeding a White baby. As someone who recognizes the numerous disparities that women of color experience, I know it’s incredibly important for us to use imagery that connects these women to our organization and the services that we offer from a perspective they can connect with. My hope with this photo was one; to present a current marginalized population of women who breast feed, and two; to reflect on an image of a non-biological parent breastfeeding.

Because we plan to use many photo opportunities of women breastfeeding, including posting on facebook and an article devoted to NBM on the an online news source I knew an image of a woman of color breastfeeding a child of color would be used in a future posting, as well as a woman breastfeeding a toddler. I think this image that I chose reflects that our organization is open to all kinds of different families, a message that I believe in strongly and try to regularly convey through our marketing and eblasts . I believe this photo represents the beauty that exists in all families and parent/child breastfeeding relationships, which is, again, why I chose the image.

Please look for additional imagery that represents a wider variety than the three women represented here in future articles and facebook postings during NBM. Thank you for the photos and for being a rock star advocate for women! Please let me know if you have any additional questions or comments and I would be happy to chat with you.

Shannon

Of course, I had to respond. There are so many things wrong with this response but choosing not to go ham I offered a few kind words (thank you transcendental meditation).


Hi Shannon:

Thanks for your response. I totally got where you were trying to go in regards of the photo but again that photo in particular is charged with a lot of energy. Believing in diverse families is beautiful and something I think we all can agree with but if you want more or need more context, look up the controversy around that particular United Colors of Benetton’s ad and historical context about Black women as wet-nurses (it also says a lot about what type of babies get adopted, what kind of babies are breastfed etc.). Based on our complex history (USA), photos of Black women nursing non-biological child are much easier to come by than not. I trust you will have a harder time displaying the reverse.

I am in solidarity of the work you all are doing and the messages you are trying to relay. I just didn’t get that with these photos so I thought I would bring it to your attention. I am looking forward future media regarding NBM and very excited to read the article on the online news source. As we are all advocates for women I know we want to support our clients in an intentional and beautifully, respectful way.

Jeanine

Not everything I wanted to say but wanted to share this encounter with you as an example of my frustrations and commitment to this birth and food justice work. Let me know your thoughts!

For this is the revolution.

Jeanine
@greendivasuper

Happy World Breastfeeding Week and National Breastfeeding Month!

Ahimsa and I got together to send a special shout out those RBGs out there. We hope you like it.

 

In solidarity,

Jeanine @greendivasuper

Free to Breastfeed: Voices from Black Mothers, the book, is in the home stretch and scheduled to be released soon. We want you beautiful, breastfeeding, Black mothers to come out and hang with us for our cover art photo shoot!

Free to Breastfeed Photo Shoot & Cafe

Saturday, March 31, 2012

3-6 pm

618 S Michigan Ave. (cross street Balboa)

Chicago, IL 60605

Bring you gorgeous selves, your babies, and your smiles for a amazing afternoon of breastfeeding goodness!

Meet other Black breastfeeding mothers!

Share your breastfeeding stories!

Be on the cover of Free to Breastfeed: Voices from Black Mothers!

Spread the word!!!

For more info email: jeanine@freetobreastfeed.com.

In honor of World Breastfeeding Week and all the beautiful breastfeeding mamas globally, we will be extending the deadline for submissions to Liquid Gold: Black Mothers on Breastfeeding.

The new submission deadline is October 1, 2011.

We have received some beautiful, intimate, humbling, tear-jerking, powerful, gut-busting, thoughtful, and insightful submissions. Thanks to all of you amazing, revolutionary mamas. We are humbled by your honesty and thank you for trusting us with your thoughts. Please continue to spread the word to Black mamas you know.

So more about World Breastfeeding Week (WBW):

According to the World Health Organization,

World Breastfeeding Week is celebrated every year from 1 to 7 August in more than 170 countries to encourage breastfeeding and improve the health of babies around the world. It commemorates the Innocenti Declaration made by WHO and UNICEF policy-makers in August 1990 to protect, promote and support breastfeeding.

I love how breastfeeding is being celebrated everywhere. Still sad about how the access to these events and/or advocacy are still scarce in many communities. As a peer educator, I’ve been thinking of what I can do to support women in my community and to celebrate their courage to breastfeed.

I have a couple of ideas but stay tuned to find out more.

In the meantime enjoy this WBW flash mob tutorial created by the World Alliance for Breastfeeding Action (WABA). If you can make it through to the end please, take a good listen to the music and check out the lyrics below.

Lyrics:

listen up
imma rap about breasts
cuz ev’ry other song
has a line about her chest

and the world’s OK with
the sex context
but feed the future and
the world’s like

what the heck?
they call it a rack

turn a gift of god
into a sales contest
and treat ev’ry woman
like an item on the shelf

major corporations and
snakeoil quacks
claim to replace
what’s nature’s best

with powdered potions,
subliminal ads

enough of that
it’s time to act
k and waba say
time to take your breast back

I think the Brown Mamas Breastfeed Project is a great idea!

Attached are 2 pictures of my son, Langston, breastfeeding at 7 months.

I breastfed him for 1 year and truly enjoyed every minute of it. I chose to breastfeed because I wanted my son to have the healthiest food he could possibly have when he was an infant, and I enjoyed the bonding time. I also chose to breastfeed because it was cheaper than buying formula.



Thanks for getting the word out there and promoting breastfeeding!


Lea (right) & Janessa with their babies
How long did I breastfeed that babe for: 3.5 years.  
I tried to wean her gently and finally had to go cold turkey. Mama was more than ready.  My child was not thrilled with the idea at all and it took her about 6 months to finally concede that I won that battle.

For me choosing to breastfeed wasn’t really a choice. It is what is done.  My grandmother didn’t but both my mother and my aunt did.  So when I was pregnant not breastfeeding wasn’t really even a thought.  I know that that is odd, but it’s true.  Even my father expected that I would breastfeed, so it really is just what we as a family do.

What do I love about breastfeeding…this is a question I have a really hard time answering.  As I said breastfeeding is our norm so there isn’t anything to really LOVE about it it just is.  There is all the snuggling and warmth, but I don’t think that mom’s who don’t breastfeed are denied snuggling just based on feeding choice.  Breastfeeding can be hard, but only in the sense that caring and feeding for a baby is hard.  You never know if they have “gotten enough” or whether that cry is hunger, GI distress, a scratchy tag or goodness only knows what else.
 
Breastfeeding is easy because well if you can’t figure out the answer stick a boob in the babe’s mouth and at least you buy yourself some time to figure it out.  Breastfeeding is hard because a huge part of your personal intimate relationship is now someone else’s food source.  Separating those functions out so that you can re-claim yourself as a wife/partner and still develop and grow as a mother is psychologically very hard.  

Breastfeeding is easy because well where else are you going to get customized, organic food for so cheap!

Nicole and son is Ethan at 9 months

We have been breastfeeding for 21 months and still going strong

As a child I knew I was going to grow up and breastfeed my children because I thought it was a normal thing to do. Once I got older and educated myself more about breastfeeding, I learned just how important it was to my child’s health.

Nicole and Ethan at 21 months

It’s not only a way to provide my son with balanced nutrition but it’s also one of the ways we bond with each other. I love how breastfeeding fosters that mother-child connection.

Hi! My name is camille and attached is a pic of my baby georgi and I last summer @ 17 months.  She is now 27 months and we are still breastfeeding! People often seem disturbed but neither of us is ready to part with it. 

Breastfeeding was something that I have always longed to do with and for my babies.  I feel like I was robbed of that right (and rite) with my older twin girls and am absolutely in love with breastfeeding so much so I also started a breastfeeding project some time ago.

What I love about breastfeeding is the warmth, the closeness, the comfort it provides me and my baby. It feels healing. I also love that my baby has not been sick or experienced any digestive issues as I’ve experienced with formula fed babies. At the hint of a cold, she nurses as often as she likes and it’s gone rather quickly. I believe breastfeeding has nurtured my patience and potential as a mom. I also feel like it has given me the opportunity to slow down and notice all the little new things my baby is doing.

I think there needs to be more exposure for women in general about breastfeeding as normal but also to have the support in hospitals and at birth that breastfeeding is the expectation and to have people who feel adamantly by mom to ensure that happens (not on standby with an enfamil bottle and a pacifier).

Cynthia & Ziona at 17 months

How long have you been breastfeeding?  How long–her whole life, 18 months

Why did you choose to breastfeed?  It just seemed like the natural, healthy thing to do.

What do you love about breastfeeding?  It makes me feel connected–to my daughter; to other mothers who fed their babies this way tens of thousands of years ago; to God’s other creations who love and nurture their babies

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